COUPLES COUNSELING

Couples often wait until they are in despair to come in and address their issues. Preventative Therapy is such a healthy option for all couples to proactively approach their relationship and not wait for something to go wrong.

Get ahead of the game! Don’t let the stigma of therapy get in the way of you nurturing your relationship.

 Preventative Therapy is a great option for you if you feel you have a strong, solid relationship, a strong sense of “we” and see yourselves as a unit that is able to communicate effectively. Your strong communication will allow you to address topics effectively and set yourselves up for a healthier future together.

As a Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist my  goal is to help couples get unstuck from having the same  arguments, deal with those underlying  issues (that don’t get talked about), understand the negative  cycle that keeps them stuck, so that ultimately they can communicate their needs and desires to one another in a way their partner can actually hear and meet.  

It’s POSSIBLE. 

 Whether you’re  constantly  fighting  or are currently not on speaking terms couples  therapy can help.  EFT is a research based model created by Sue Johnson that has a 75%, if not more, success rate.  Invest in your relationship while the pilot  light is still on for your partner. 

Infidelity is one of the greatest challenges a couple will face. The pain and devastation can feel insurmountable. But an affair doesn’t happen in a day, and as easy as it is to point the finger, it is ESSENTIAL that we will look and explore how each of you contributed to the break down that got us to this point. 

Our work together is to bring understanding, recovery and healing that eventually leads to forgiveness. Although this process takes time, these stages help us establish safety while addressing painful feelings and emotions around the affair.

Ossi is not the moral police. It is also not lost on her the pain each individual experiences in this process. She is here to help bring understanding and ultimately integrate the meaning of the affair so that you can find a way to move forward. Infidelity will always be a chapter in your story but it doesn’t have to be the entire story.

The ending of a romantic relationship is one of the most painful experiences. 

Ossi understands the loss and grieving process that is felt whether you’ve been dating for a year, or married for decades. Whether this is a shared decision or not, you both are experiencing emotions around the loss of someone significant in your life.

It’s so important to have someone help you through this painful time. Recovery from a relationship ending can take some time, and Ossi will be by your side to help you address your emotions, as well as the new changes in your life so that you don’t have to go through this alone.

Ossi is devoted to helping you understand your own and your partner’s roles, finding your new identity, and bringing healing and closure. Together, we will address the challenges you are experiencing and work toward recovery.